Why is it so important NOT to be ‘false’ to anyone? First for the obvious reasons, it’s not cool to be a fraud.  Second, and less apparent, because it hurts YOUR Soul. Not in the way that it’s a betrayal and you are a bad person, but in a compromises-your-truth-eats-a-whole-in-your-heart-and-you-hate-yourSelf kind of way. Because when you live even a smidge less than your total truth or dim your light just a tad, before you know it, you are cutting off your right arm and the light goes out completely!!